I celebrated my birthday a couple days ago at home with my family. It looked a lot different than past birthdays, but it has been one of my favorites. Over the past year, I have been keeping a running list on my phone of things I have learned this year. I thought it would share 22 with all of you. Some are funny and lighthearted and some I had to go through struggles to realize. Looking back it is crazy how much you can grow in a year. I am excited and blessed to have another year to learn, love, and grow.
1. Do not try to break in new shoes overnight.
2. Stop rushing this stage of life.
3. You will not please everyone every time.
4. People rarely feel qualified or ready.
5. Hot showers fix most problems.
6. Get to know yourself. What are your likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams etc.
7. Give your body rest.
8. Just pick a direction instead of staying stagnant. You can always change the direction later but just keep moving.
9. Don’t let your gas tank get to empty.
10. It is rarely as bad as you think it is.
11. Learn to be ok with stillness.
12. Invest in skincare.
13. Life happens in stages. Not every stage is going to be your favorite.
14. Contribute to your retirement fund.
15. Fresh flowers are not a waste of money.
16. Stop living for weekends.
17. Be the first to apologize, even if it is not your fault.
18. Be the friend you wish you had.
19. Don’t speak badly about yourself. Especially out loud.
20. Don’t miss points on stupid things.
21. Save your files multiple places.
22. Play big. Run with the fastest. Show up. Work hard.
There you have it! 22 lessons during my 22nd year. What are some lessons you have learned and live by?